Is your happiness in their pocket?

Hi everyone, it's me again 😊. Is your happiness really in their pocket??
Hm, it's something else living for people... well, it's not easy trying to please people, because no matter what you do, you will never be too good for them!
Trying to fit in.... trust me I've tried it, I know how it feels, you will never be good for them, all your efforts will equate to a big null!!
Ellen Roosevelt said, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent." I agree to that fully!!
Now, consent can be used either as a verb or noun, in either way it means to give permission for something to happen.
inferior also means, something low or of a low quality.
Allow me to rephrase what Ellen said, " no one can make you feel low without your permission!"
There it is in plain English. You don't have to live for people, their negative opinion about you doesn't matter neither does it concern you, in fact opinion means a view or judgement formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge. Need I say more?? A view that isn't even based on fact or knowledge, my dear their view doesn't hold water, in short it doesn't matter!!
A lady tries to have a little fun, and haters say she's too loud and yet she calls herself a lady.
A gentleman tries to "swag" up a little, he tries to get more designer branded clothes and all haters can say is he buys fake designer clothes.
Ei!! Now tell me, can you ever please them???
You needn't live for them, they aren't your alpha or beta cells!
Did you know there are hormones in your brain that can be released just to make you happy?
The hormone that controls depression is called serotonin, use it!
My mother used to tell me that no one is perfect, everyone has their own fault.
When someone says something hateful about you, remember that they have their own faults, better still tell them to remove the log in their eyes so that they can see clearly to remove the spec from yours.
Remember , Ellen also said, "well behaved women rarely make history." So go on, misbehave ( not in a bad way though) and make history, be yourself, forget the status quo and make history!