Why do men leave ladies after sex?

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I know you are wondering why this topic had to come up yeah? I think it’s about time we hear why the men do what they do. I have had people coming to me to ask why exactly men do this, so I decided to do a little survey during the week, and I asked random men why men do leave right after sex. Here are some of the responses I got so far:

James:
After sex?? Erm, maybe they did not love them from the start, and they just wanted to get into her pants. And honestly, some girls think it’s safe or okay for them to have sex with or kiss people they are in a relationship with. I hear girls say “ I don’t or I can’t kiss people I’m not dating.” With that, they are trying to tell the guy to propose before they can do any of that.

Roland:
It could be that the girl was playing hard to get. Guys easily get fed up of women after sex. That’s the reason why a guy can go through hell to bang a girl and later regret ever entering. It could be that the girl has a stench down there. Or maybe the girl is boring. Or he never liked the girl, he just wanted to bang.

Collins:
Lol. It depends on the kind of person. And also guys don’t attach emotions to sex.

Peter:
I don’t know if it’s a thing that guys do. I haven’t done that. The only reason I can think of is if the sex was that bad or they just lied from the start.

Derrick:
All they wanted was the sex.

Frederick:
The guy came came in for sex and the girl forced him to propose.


Gerald:
I have little knowledge on that. Probably the guys were not interested anymore.


Dennis:
This question is very hard and I don’t know how to answer. But what I know is, maybe all they wanted was the sex, and they just need something to give the girl confirmation and assurance before they can get the sex. Some also it’s because of lust, once they get the sex, they see no interest and they leave.


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Our world.

The world we live in...

We live in a world where blacks hate being black and will rather “tone” to a light shade n whites will rather tan cos of the conditions of their skin. We live in a world where people never value something when they have it but value it when they lose it. 

We live in a world where when a lady does not stand up for herself she is seen as a weakling but when she stands up for herself she is suddenly too much and too loud. 

We live in a world where the people who go to church judge those who do not go just because they have refused to see that there is more to the Bible than “just” going to church. 

We live in a world that people will only help you when they know that they will need u help in the next couple of minutes. 

We live in a world where domestic violence still exists and men can threaten women with a slap and vice versa. 

We live in a world where the poor constantly act to be rich and the rich act to be poor. 

We live in a world where social media has defined what beauty is, so a lady can get up and say she is not beautiful just because she does not look like the rest of the social media girls. 

We live in a world where being called a size 12 is a crime but being called a size zero is an achievement. 

We live in a world where it feels warm in your room but the rest of the world is cold. 

We live in a world where it is hard to come by someone who has your back from day one and will never watch you leave. 

We live in a world where it is very difficult for people to be helped just because other people want to post them on social media just for a few likes, comments or retweets rather than go straight ahead and help the victims. 

We live in a world where freedom of speech is not really free but is actually very expensive. 

We live in a world where no one is quick to insult a rich man but is quick to insult a poor man. 

We live in a world where justice is not justice at all, but rather it is given to those who can afford it. 

We live in a world where despite the education a person gets, he or she is still the dumbest human being alive. 

We live in a world where if someone does not fall within a standard, that person is normally casted out. 

We live in a world where when someone apologizes for mistakes they have committed they are rather reminded of how terrible they are.  

We live in a world where the dead are more celebrated than the living. 

We live in a world where someone refuses to understand the fault of others. 

We live in a world where people always think they are right and can never go wrong. 

We live in a world where people will not support you from the beginning but will start claiming to know you once you make it in life. 

We live in a very strange world. 

We live in a very contradictory world. 

We live in a world where people will not support you from the beginning but will start claiming to know you once y make it in life. 

Open your eyes and be wise. 

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I was awoken by this loud bang at my door, I wondered who was at the door at that time... I checked the time, oh wait, it’s already morning! It’s past 9 a.m.
I peeked through the peephole to see who it was, it was my very good friend, let’s call him Keel...
“Hey, Keel, what’s up.” I gave him a wide smile and pulled him into a warm embrace.
“Hey, were you asleep? At this time? Wow!” Keel said while looking at me in awe.
“Well.... I...” I could not finish because he interrupted me.
“Remember the program I told you about.”
“Erm, ...” what program was he talking about? I tried remembering but I couldn’t.
“What program?” I asked him.
“The program I told you about, the place I told you about that you can take all your problems there and it will be solved? The place that has so much joy, the place that when you go you wouldn’t want to leave...”
And suddenly I remembered, “ oh yes ! I remember! The place I always wanted to go so that I can receive unending joy and to also relief myself of the burden I’m carrying.”
Keel looked at me and agreed with a nod to everything I had said, then he said, “I came to fetch you, go and get dressed and let’s go.”
Without hesitation I went to freshen up, put on my best clothes and sprayed myself with my best perfume.
You see, for sometime now I haven’t been myself, a lot had gone on and I was convinced my life was a curse, so I was ready to go to the place Keel was talking about.
So with eagerness I locked the door and we made our way to the mysterious place.
Oh yea! Keel was right, the whole place was joyous, I had never seen a place so lively like this! Everyone was singing and dancing, I don’t know what made them so joyous, but this joy was contagious, before I knew it I was like them, I was singing out and dancing, I noticed there was no particular way to dance, which made the celebration even better...
After a while, people came out to give testimonies of how God has been good to them, about how they did not deserve anything good but He still favored them. They spoke about how they were burdened with sin but God lifted their burden.
Then I don’t know what came over me, I walked up to grab the microphone and spoke about how grateful I am to be alive and how I was down with sin and how I thought at that moment God has lifted every burden and has cleaned every tear from my eye, I spoke about all the bad things I did that I could remember, the ones I wasn’t proud of, the ones no one knew about, I was free, I was joyous...
Then I noticed a change in the audience, what seemed to be a once joyous place was now silent, everyone looked at me with eyes that judged me, oh wait, were my offenses greater than all of theirs?
I tried to look for solace in the eyes of the people I danced with, but I did not get any. I looked at the people who ushered me to my seat but all I saw was a hard cold stare, or did I say something wrong?
Even Keel was nowhere in sight.... I dropped the microphone and immediately left the place.
On my way home, I had so much thoughts in my head, I just came from church, church they say is the hospital for the sick, so how can they just judge me for bringing all my complains and illness to the hospital? Why were they looking at me with coldness in their eyes?
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The church is meant for people to come and experience God with one another in peace and love.
So it’s not right to judge people who come, truth is you aren’t better than them, the fact that you sin differently than they do doesn’t give you the audacity to judge them and make them feel bad.
Treat everyone equally, because Christ died for all of us, don’t be the reason why someone finds it difficult to serve God.
God bless us all. 🙏🏾

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I’m literally in tears as I’m writing this
We were taught in school about slavery, how slavery started and ended some years ago, and I’m sure several of us vowed in our hearts not to let history repeat itself.
But here we are again, history has repeated itself, we sit back and watch as some people (white men) play with our destiny.
You see in life, there’s something called jealousy who has an identical twin called envy, where when you see your neighbor has a tendency of prospering you do everything to prevent them from prospering, even if it comes down to killing.
Just take a good look at what is happening in Libya!!
In this day and time, in this century, in this global world, in this world filled with technology and formal education,  yet still see what is going on.
Well, as my teacher said, colonialism never ended, we think importing foreign goods into our markets neglecting our locally made ones isn’t part of colonialism? You think looking down on locally made goods and thinking high of foreign made goods isn’t part of colonialism?? Indeed there’s something called new colonialism, and that’s what all these fall under.
We praise their goods to the extent that they give us fake goods and we still buy them, they bring into our markets plastic rice and we still purchase it, they bring plastic eggs, fake hair, weaves from the dead and we still hail them over what we have!!!
What is wrong with us?
They started colonialism,we thought it was over but they brought this new form of colonialism, now look at what is happening in Libya. Little drops of water they say make a mighty ocean! They started with small small trading, now they have started in human trading.... how can we sit down for humans to be sold???
We must do something!! We always complain about the fact that when there are problems in other parts of Africa they never come up with  posters saying,” pray for this African country..”  yet still when France and Texas and other cities or countries had problems they told us to pray for them... when someone does not care for you, can’t you see it??
Are you waiting to wear glasses first?
We cry about how short sighted our African presidents are, but we do not realize that as a people, we are equally short sighted.
A nation that is divided will never stand, so when a nation has no leader that nation will collapse! They knew that, that is why they turned us against our freedom fighters, Kwame Nkrumah (Ghana), Gaddafi (Libya), Robert Mugabe (Zimbabwe), and when they achieve their aim, they come in and take over, just like what’s happening in Libya. No one is perfect, so some of our freedom fighters had their flaws, what these whites did was that they magnified the flaws of the leaders and made it look like the people deserved better, therefore making the people turn against their leader.
I have never been so bitter like this while writing posts, this is heart breaking.
How can you seek help from people who want your downfall??
Africa, sit up, for the race is for the swift and smart.

Tabula Rasa....

Tabula rasa..... I still remember the first time I heard it! My teacher was teaching about something entirely different but he just chipped in this bit, he made me understand that a new born baby's mind is clear... it has no information, in fact it is empty.
Tabula rasa= clean slate, and it is referred to a mind that is not yet affected by experiences.
So let's look at it this way, if Naa was born with a clean slate, without any information, simply put with nothing in her mind, how then did she know she was called Naa?
How then did she respond to the name Naa?
How then did she learn how to spell the name Naa?
How come when she is asked what her name is, she says, "My name is Naa."
You see, when  you are born, you are born without any information, you do not know how to talk, you know nothing, so how come you respond to your name?
As you started growing up, your parents made you know your name, they made Naa know her name is Naa, therefore if anyone asked for her name she tells them she is called Naa.
So if you did not know your name, but got to know your name through your parents, and you believed without doubt that that is your name, and that you owned that name, such that you can tell everyone your name, then why don't you believe what God calls you.
If your parents call you Naa ,and you respond to it, why don't you pride in the name God calls you?
God calls you blameless. ( Ephesians 1:4)
God calls you a new creature.( 2 Corinthians 5:17)
God calls you His child and an heir. ( Galatians 4:7)
God calls you His friend.( John 15:13)
God calls you a saint. (1 Corinthians 1:2)
God calls you His love.(John 3:16)
God calls you a citizen of heaven. (Ephesians 5:8)
These are just few of the things God calls you.
So recognize and accept the name God calls you, above all respond to it and see yourself in that light!
Why should circumstances come your way and make you forget who you are? When circumstances come your way, do you forget what your name is? That is the same way you do not have to forget who you are in Christ!
So get up, wash your face and stand tall!
God calls you His own!
So, just as your mind had nothing in it initially till it was filled with information from people, let your mind be also filled with information from God.

Are girls complicated?🤔🤔

Are we complicated? Or kind of complicated? Or really complicated? Or just plain COMPLICATED??
Haha.... I can see boys nodding in agreement to the last question....
hi guys.... girls are not complicated at all... our no means no and our yes means yes.... or probably not... LOL 😂
OK, let get this started.
If a guy asks a girl a question, and he really wants to know the answer, he should not just listen to her answer, he should pay attention to her actions as well...
As in the example:
Boy: hey hun, so something came up with the boys and I have to cancel dinner is order to meet with them....is that ok with you?
(In the first place, why is he asking whether it's ok with her? Because in his speech he has to cancel dinner.... so in this case, the girl has to go along with the new plan)
Girl: ok...
(She looks really disappointed 😔, and cannot look at him in the eyes...)
Guy: are you sure?
(He keeps pushing it)
Girl: I'm good, will it even change anything? Just go....
Guy:ok, I will call you later...
Later on at night....
Guy: hun, I have been calling you for sometime now, but no response, are you good?
Girl: (in a sarcastic tone) of course I am! After canceling dinner, what do you expect?
Guy: but... I thought u were cool with this whole thing...
First of all, how does a guy think a girl will be cool after canceling plans??
Girls plan a whole lot, especially when it comes to outing, so rather than just listening pay attention to her actions and you will understand her better....
Girls say something else while their heart wants something else....
Get to know your woman and stop calling her complicated...
We are simple like that! 😉